Cisco/@theconnor, safe spaces, and eternal/ephemeral thoughts
Sunday, March 22, 2009 at 05:19PM Today I ran into the Cisco/@theconnor story, summed up nicely by Oliver over at the The BrandBuilder Blog:
1. @theconnor gets job with Cisco.
2. @theconnor posts less than enthused opinion about the Cisco job on Twitter (actually naming Cisco as the new employer).

3. Cisco employee on Twitter spots the post and promptly responds.

4. @theconnor blocks her Twitter updates (hides them from public view)... but it’s too late. The damage is done, and he probably spends most of the day wondering if Cisco will now rethink its job offer.
This is certainly not the first time this kind of thing has come up (re: FedEx and @keyinfluencer), because it reflects an idea that's becoming increasingly more true: online, everything is archived - instantly and forever. And anyone can/will find it, eventually.
I've had a few related thoughts recently on some of the emerging implications of collecting more and more of "all the worlds people and information together at our fingertips."
This is one of the most salient ones, that there are fewer and fewer "safe spaces" for expressing thoughts and feelings online (ask any teen who's gone from myspace to facebook to twitter to ??? as their parents follow suit).
Particularly relevant here: as the amount of exposure of any particular phrase increases throughout the net, so does the capacity for the phrase to be taken completely out of context.
Not that this is at all an attempt to argue the case that @theconnor should be shown some understanding, it is more an attempt to get a glimpse of how our actions, behaviors, beliefs and social norms will adjust over time to the inevitability of this massive public forum where context is non-existent that we're inching our way towards.
Where will we go to make a comment that is anything less than glowing about someone/something/somewhere without fear of the hammers coming down when the people close to those things inevitably catch wind of it? Will this kind of speech just go away? (ha. not likely.)
Will we develop more efficient methods for clarifying/expressing our true feelings? (waiting for the "lol the following is a joke, if you take it seriously it's probably because we're in no way close enough to understand each other, hey how about we go get a drink I know this place you'll probably like" emoticon/convention to emerge/catch on)
In a world where written statements are increasingly more permanent and pervasive: will we be able to recognize individual statements as one of infinitely many in a persons' life?
Not to long ago I started asking: "what is it that we'll be nostalgic for, 25 years from now?"
One answer that's starting to look good: "that time long ago when we could share thoughts online and have them exist as they do in our heads: temporary, changing, and subject to many more fleeting influences than permanent ones."
(btw it'd probably do you well to read Connor's thoughts as well.)
Asking the right questions,
Identity tagged
nostalgia,
privacy,
social change,
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